Mum of man killed in Vietnam crash describes ‘nightmare’on May 29, 2022 at 7:27 am

- Advertisement -
- Advertisement -
- Advertisement -
- Advertisement -

Denver Barfield’s body is due to arrive in the UK after he died earlier this month.

Denver Barfield

Image source, Family photo

The mother of a man killed in a motorbike crash in Vietnam has said his body is due to arrive in the UK after “an awful nightmare”.

Denver Barfield, 24, from Beaumont Leys in Leicester, died in Hoi An on 16 May, his family say.

Beth Thompson, a masters student at the University of Leicester, was also killed in the crash.

Mr Barfield’s mum Debbie Clayton said she was “in shock”, adding now his body is coming home, it has “become real”.

The 50-year-old added: “I am really upset. I just think I have been telling myself it is mistaken identity. I am in shock really.”

Denver Barfield

Image source, Family photo

On Friday night, she said the Foreign Office confirmed his body was on an aeroplane and due to arrive at Heathrow Airport on Saturday evening.

Mr Barfield was in Vietnam as part of a trip to different countries with a friend, and they had plans to go on to Cambodia, Bali and then Australia – which is where his mother grew up – before he started a job in London.

Denver Barfield

Image source, Family photo

Talking about her son, she said: “He was my world. He was kind, caring, quirky and an incredible human being. I was so proud. He had good manners and was a beautiful soul.

“He had his future mapped out – he was a blessing.

“The last time I spoke to him was the Saturday [before his death], he said ‘mum guess where am I going to end up?’

“He said ‘I am going to end up in your home town’.”

Miss Clayton said she was visited by police officers at her home on the morning of 16 May to tell her he had died.

She said she then started getting messages from someone who said they were the coroner in Vietnam, and demanded $12,500 to send her son’s body home.

She added: “They were asking me what I wanted to do with my dead son’s body and they started sending graphic images.”

‘Extremely saddened’

Miss Clayton said she received more than 50 messages before police confirmed to her on 19 May that it was a scam.

She added: “It has just been an awful nightmare.”

Mr Barfield’s friend Harri Stavrou has started a fundraising page, which has raised more than £23,000, and the funds have been used towards bringing Mr Barfield’s body home.

Dr Wendy Tabrizi, head of the marketing & strategy department at Aston Business School, said: “We are all extremely saddened to hear this news. Denver performed well on the BSc Marketing degree, achieving a 2:1 in June 2020, despite the difficulties all students experienced with lockdown at that time.”

Geoff Green, registrar and secretary at the University of Leicester, said: “I am deeply saddened to hear about the death of Beth Thompson – our thoughts are with her family and friends.

“Beth was a bright and dedicated chemistry student. She completed her Masters last year and had already embarked on a successful career as a chemical analyst.”

A Foreign, Commonwealth & Development Office spokesperson said: “Our staff are supporting the families of a British man and woman who died following a road traffic accident in Vietnam.”

Presentational grey line

Follow BBC East Midlands on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. Send your story ideas to eastmidsnews@bbc.co.uk.

Related Internet Links

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
- Advertisement -

Discover

Sponsor

Latest

Garth Crooks’ Team of the Week: Ronaldo, Diaz, Eriksen, Yarmolenko, Rudigeron March 13, 2022 at 9:37 pm

Who got Garth into trouble at the petrol station? Which striker might be a good buy for Arsenal? Find out in Garth Crooks' latest...

Brazil Bolsonaro: Thousands protest calling for president’s removalon October 2, 2021 at 9:53 pm

Demonstrations against Jair Bolsonaro take place in more than 160 towns and cities.

This Earth Day especially, ‘remember plants are non-judgmental’ — what it’s like to start gardening during a pandemic

My friend passed along some vegetable seeds and my first burst of excitement has turned into dread. With the struggle to slow COVID-19 leaving most...

Rangers 2-1 Aberdeen: Kemar Roofe sends Ibrox side into finalon January 15, 2023 at 5:49 pm

Kemar Roofe's first goal of the season sent Rangers into the Viaplay Cup final to face Celtic as Aberdeen were overcome in extra time.Kemar...

Kylian Mbappe expected to announce Real Madrid move within weeks, says Guillem Balagueon May 16, 2022 at 9:03 pm

Real Madrid are confident Kylian Mbappe will announce his decision to join them from Paris St-Germain within the next fortnight, reports Guillem Balague.