At first glance, Billie Eilish might appear to be the very stereotypical dating guru type: overweight, grumpy, hopelessly smitten with a certain “select few” who never come into her life. It’s possible that some of these stereotypes are true. But if you take a look at the writer’s history, you’ll see that she has been through the trials and tribulations of the dating world.
She says that she was not always the person she is today, but, in fact, that she has changed a lot in the past. In fact, she has undergone many phases – one way or another. She has experienced dating in Los Angeles, the suburbs of Chicago, the inner city of New York City, and now, on the outer-sides of the nation. In all these stages, the writer has met the same types of people.
What the profile author has found, however, is that there are those out there who can change some of their attitudes, and can make their lives more enjoyable. What could be more pleasurable than knowing that the person you’re dating is so much better than what you saw on your profile? Let’s take a look at how the author has changed in the process.
In the beginning, there was a good look at herself on her profile. Not quite as attractive as she could have been but still, enough that one might have wondered if the profile author had gotten it right all along.
The new suit is a bit of a departure from her old style. It is new and fun and represents the woman who will soon be having children. The fact that she looks forward to the next step in her life gives the impression that she is an active participant in her own life. Her list of accomplishments makes it seem that she is not going to settle down before she sees the end. The woman describes a wide range of experiences, the fact that she doesn’t need a relationship to be happy, and that she does not need a man to be happy. And she makes it sound like it was really no big deal to call her friends in for coffee one day and express her feelings. The author has certainly matured over the past year.
The writer has had the experience of going through a divorce and knows that some things don’t change. The transition to another stage of life needs to be handled carefully. Sometimes, it takes a great deal of forgiveness to make this adjustment. Some people won’t go through this unless they have a significant other to live with.
The first time a man has gone through a divorce and the woman is still seeking a second chance, she ought to stop and look at the information found in dating books, or look for the information on attraction sites. There is an abundance of information out there for this type of thing. With some luck, she will find the answers she has been looking for, and perhaps for many things, too.
